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SOURCE-LED EDITORIAL REVIEW

Growing Up: family as a balance of power, against the grain.

Growing Up · 2017

A source-led reading of Growing Up as documentary: family ties, confrontation, documented consensus, and the counterpoint that shifts the conclusion.

THE FILM EDITORIAL DESKAugust 31, 2026301 WORDS
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THEMATIC CENTER

family ties
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NARRATIVE PRESSURE

confrontation
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FORM

documentary
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RECORD ANCHORS

intimate · portrait · newborn

The record for Growing Up yields three coordinates specific to its premise—intimate, portrait, and newborn. That vocabulary places family ties at the center and gives confrontation its dominant tension. It establishes a documentary baseline, not a borrowed score; criticism must still ask what the form does with that material.

Growing Up brings family ties into contact with confrontation through documentary. That intersection is our Fresh Take: judge the premise less by its familiarity than by how precisely that combination makes its conflict legible. The existing editorial note adds this view: A sensitive, fully inhabited film whose direction lets emotion surface with precision.

Growing Up (2017) arrives with the coordinates of a documentaire film situated in 2010s cinema. The record credits Dominik Mencej with the direction and places Andreja Lapuh Maležič and Jedrt Lapuh Maležič in the foreground. With a contained running time, the useful question is not to invent an invisible intention, but to notice how these documented choices shape audience expectations before the first frame.

Read as documentary, the film carries the pressure of confrontation. Family becomes less an automatic refuge than a system of debts, loyalties, and roles waiting to be renegotiated. The most precise critical test is therefore the precision with which conflict redistributes power. Character-driven stories are sometimes accused of lacking movement. That misses how the crucial decision can be internal, and how cinema has concrete ways to make the unspoken visible.

The counterpoint asks not who belongs to the family, but who has the right to redefine its rules. Instead of asking whether the film confirms the expected story of family ties, the sharper question is whether it changes the person, place, or institution with the power to define it. The decisive angle is to read the distance between two bodies as a complete dramatic event.

THE VERDICT, REFRAMED

Our angle: small scale can enlarge exactly what cinema needs to show. Here, family ties changes meaning under the pressure of confrontation.

THE DOCUMENTARY STARTING POINT

An intimate portrait of a newborn baby boy Tibor and his two mothers, Daja and Jedrt, who fight against the social discrimination of their family. They are the only homosexual parents to have taken an active part in the campaign for the same-sex marriage referendum that took place in Slovenia. The challenge of motherhood was exacerbated by Daja and Jedrt's political opponents, who have publicly accused them of paedophilia and labelled their relationship as unnatural.

Original review by The Film Editorial Desk. No audience testimony or independent critic identity is fabricated.
Year
2017
Runtime
80 min
Direction
Dominik Mencej · Siniša Gačić
Performers
Andreja Lapuh Maležič · Jedrt Lapuh Maležič · Tibor Lapuh Maležič